Friday, February 25, 2011

A Question for all the pregnant people ... ... ...

NOW - everyone that knows me knows I am not about to have any more children - lol - but I have at least 10 friends that are pregnant right now and I am seeing a very big trend in their pregnancies ... that trend is "Planned C-Sections" ... WHAT?!?!?!?!?!?  This leaves me with some questions.

What happened to the days where your baby came when GOD said the baby was ready to come???  Please don't get me wrong, I know there are times where there are complications in pregnancies and for the protection of mother or baby or both, a C-Section is necessary.  I'm talking to the moms that are planning their C-Section out of convenience or because they just "can't wait" or "don't want to wait" or - this one kills me - because "I want to choose a really cool birth date and what the exact day will be" like you're selecting lottery numbers or something.

I've been a mom now for over 16 years and let me tell you ~ the best thing you can do for your child is teach them about God's Will.  Following God's Will is what will give them EVERYTHING they need to succeed in life.  But to teach your child about God's Will ~ you have to know how to follow it yourself.

I know I'm probably not making people happy right now and my intention is NOT to make you mad, but to get you to think about the true reason for your "planned C-Section".  Is it because you are having complications?  Because there is a risk to you or your baby?  Or is it for convenience?  So you know when the baby is coming - you can plan everything up to the very last minute and know exactly when you need to go to the hospital?  Just remember GOD is the giver of life.  HE is the One that put that tiny little baby in you and HE is the One the knows EXACTLY when it is SAFE for your baby to born.  I say SAFE because when I was pregnant with Micah, he was so big that every time I had an ultra sound, they changed my due date - they gave me a due date almost a MONTH earlier than should have been.  This was back before "planned C-Sections" were allowed.  Well, let me just tell you, Micah was born on my ORIGINAL due date - the one that GOD gave me with the "birthing plan" that HE designed.  If Micah would have come early - if I would have "planned" my C-Section going off what the doctors were saying and what MAN said would be okay - Micah's lungs would not have fully developed and he would have LIFE LONG complications.

Again, I'm not trying to make anyone upset and I'm not trying to tell anyone what to do.  I'm not trying to say you're a horrible person if you have your "planned C-Section" already and know the exact date when your baby will come.  I just want you to stop and think.  PRAY about this decision.  Is this something that GOD has given you the okay on or have you even asked Him what HIS opinion on the matter is???

There are amazing stories that people can tell their children about when their water broke and where they were ~ or the miracle that God preformed during their labor and delivery.  Don't rob yourself of the amazing experience and blessing He has for you in doing birth HIS WAY!!!!!  He's the God of the universe and let me tell you I would give my life to defend the fact that HE knows what's best for you AND your baby.

Saturday, February 19, 2011

"Patrick" or "The Master's Voice"

From Day 15 in the "Lifetime Guarantee Devotional" at www.YouVersion.com


John 10:4-5
4 When he has brought out all his own, he goes on ahead of them, and his sheep follow him because they know his voice.5 But they will never follow a stranger; in fact, they will run away from him because they do not recognize a stranger’s voice.”


The Master's Voice

Read John 10:4-5.

Dad loved to fly fish, and it wasn't necessary for him to have a friend along. He thrived on the solitude, the quietness, the beauty, the "swish" of the line from his reel, seeing how close he could put his fly to "that dark shadow under the tree across the river -- they'll be hiding in the shade by that stump." They? The bluegill. The goggle-eyed perch. The smaller fish, but real fighters. You knew when one was on your line!

He had gone to Blackfork and was heading home . . . alone. The roads were made for four-wheel drive vehicles and would have been an exciting challenge, but four-wheelers weren't around when Dad was here, so he drove the old black Pontiac slowly, carefully, lingering, still enjoying his own private forest. 

It was then that he spotted the deserted campsite. There was a cleared place where the tent had been staked, a deep hole that had been used for ice, and a burned-out campfire. And there was something else -- a little black-and-brown dog sitting forlornly and expectantly by the pile of rocks that had bordered the fire.

Dad got out and made friends with the dog, sizing up the situation pretty quickly. The dog had no doubt been exploring and wasn't around when time came to break camp and head home. (I can imagine how they had waited and hoped and whistled and called and finally left . . . without him.) It seemed like the dog knew that Dad was his last chance, so he hopped into the car and they headed for Poteau together.

We were "dogless" at the time (a rarity), so seeing the lost dog in Daddy's arms was a real thrill for us. He was a small terrier with wiry black hair and tan feet. His tail hadn't been bobbed and the tip was tan like his feet. With his ears up, he was not over a foot tall. He let us hold him and love him, sensing perhaps that this was going to be his new home. We tried every name that we could think of, but we just couldn't excite him. He answered best to a two-syllable name, so we finally called him Sonny.

Dad put an ad in the LeFlore County Sun: "Dog found at campsite on south end of Blackfork River. Call 410 to identify." When a call would come, he would always ask the caller to describe his or her dog, but Sonny never fit the bill. We were so glad, because he had won our hearts. His master had obviously spent time playing with him and training him; one of his favorite pastimes was knocking a pop bottle around with his nose and playing with it like a ball. Sonny had accepted us and we had accepted Sonny. He was part of the Hoyle family.

Then one day Dad called to say, "Honey, we've got a young man here who thinks the little dog is his. I'm sending him out to let him see Sonny."

I was at home by myself and didn't know quite how I could face someone coming and claiming Sonny, taking him away. I put him on the back porch and closed the kitchen door.

Our front door opened into a hallway. The first door on the right was to our guest bedroom, the immediate left to the living room. The living room and dining room were one large, long room, with a door at the end of the dining area that opened into the kitchen; the door to the back porch was in line with that door. The divan had been placed as a divider between the two areas. Sonny could go around the divan or crawl under it, but it was too high for him to go over. 

A knock on the front door. I didn't want to go. I dreaded it, but knew I had to. The young man at the door stood on crutches -- you could tell they had been his lifelong companions. He introduced himself and I ushered him into the living room -- right at the front end by the piano. We talked a moment, then I suggested that he call the dog when I opened the door to the back porch so we could see what kind of response he would get. He agreed. When I opened the door, Sonny was playing with a pop bottle.

Suddenly there was a short, clear whistle and a call: "Patrick!"

Sonny froze and tilted his head to one side, the abandoned pop bottle rolling toward the wall. Then again, the whistle and that name, "Patrick!"

Patrick scratched at the linoleum floor with his little short legs, trying to get traction, and then he started running -- through the dining table legs, over the top of the divan and, with one wild leap, into the outstretched arms of his master, who was ready . . . balanced . . . watching anxiously with tears on his cheeks. He grabbed that little dog and held him so close and tight! Patrick knew his master's voice.

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I hope I did justice to that story. It's one of my favorites. Why did I tell it? Because I want to talk about who we are and who God is. We are Patrick, and we have a Master who loves us more than we can possibly comprehend. Oh, Patrick was surviving with us, but his heart was still with the person who loved him, played with him, trained him, and drove 160 miles over a crooked, narrow road to claim him and identify him as his own.

Do you know who you are? Do you know that those arms are outstretched, that He is standing and waiting, with a tear-streaked face, for you to run and with "one, wild leap" jump into His arms? Do you know that you are totally and completely loved? Oh, you may be surviving in your present surroundings, entertaining yourself with your "toys," but are you separated from the One who loves you so much that He gave His life for you?

Knowing who you are brings a confidence into your life that cannot be taken away. Jesus got down on His knees, on the floor, and washed the feet of the disciples. How could He humble Himself to that degree? Well, John 13:3 tells us: "Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come forth from God, and was going back to God. . . ." Jesus knew two things: 1) who He was; and 2) that He was passionately loved by His Father.

You may label yourself an engineer, a librarian, a business mogul, a student, an accomplished vocalist, a devoted mother, a retired banker, an executive secretary, or a wife above reproach. Any of those things could be gone in the twinkling of an eye. Now, who are you? There is only one identity that is unshakable; one identity that is for eternity; one identity that will never fail you. That is your identity in Christ.

Patrick's story has limits, I know. It's a sweet little dog story, more for children than for mature adults. But are you sure you know what the story is saying? Perhaps you need to become "like a little child." And don't look at the obvious limits; look at the incredible possibilities. Patrick knew his master. Patrick knew who he was. That filled his heart with joy, his life with purpose. 

Whatever you have in your hands, let it go. Then kind of tilt your head and listen. Did you hear that whistle? Sharp. Clear. And you recognize the voice, don't you? Okay. Start scrambling. Run. Faster. Go under and over the obstacles, no matter how tall they seem to be. Then jump! He's watching . . . He's able to catch you . . . and His arms will gather you close and hold you, and you'll be back where you belong.